If you want an answer that fits within the realm of GB. let me offer this to you; Picture a hose that has one of the nozzles that you can turn off at the end with the black knob. There is always an amount of pressure trying to force it's way out. If the knob is half-way closed, the water hits it, and 100% of the pressure is trying to come out of only 50% of the opening, and makes the water spray everywhere. However, if you open the nozzle up completely, the water isn't hitting anything and comes out in a nice straight stream. So maybe apply this type of idea to the proton streams in that when they bust something like Onionhead/Slimer, they only need minimal power and therefore only “open up the streams” part way. Gozer/Stay-Puft is huge and needs all the fire power they can get, so they open full stream, and they are shoot in straight lines, for nothing is holding back the streams. I believe at one point they even say “full stream”. Just an idea and an attempted analogy.